“This is way too uncomfortable – I can’t talk about it.”
I understand. You probably grew up realizing that sex was private, intimate – not suitable for discussion.
Or your parents never even said the word sex around you, and the education you got in school wasn’t exactly accurate.
When you have questions about sex or find your sex life unsatisfying, where can you turn? You can’t talk about it – it’s embarrassing – so you decide to see what the Internet has to say.
The Disappointing Dr. Google
Soon, you realize just how much misleading information is lurking out there on the web.
Whether your concerns involve a medical condition or sexual preference, it’s overwhelming to see thousands of different search results – where do you even begin?
And once you start reading, you’re even more disheartened – all kinds of “experts” – many sources – all bearing inconsistent information.
That’s where a sex therapist comes in.
Perhaps your relationship poses unique challenges.
Maybe you’re not having as much sex as you want – or any sex at all – in your current relationship.
Or maybe you’re experiencing a sexual dysfunction – or kinks and fantasies.
Whatever’s on your mind – seriously – whatever it is, I can help.
Nothing is off-limits here…
Regardless of the type of sex or types of partners you prefer, it’s all open for discussion with me.
I’ll gather information to see what, if anything, is causing distress in your sexual life.
Together, we’ll explore what’s going on and distinguish between healthy and unhealthy behaviors – to ensure you have the sexual quality you desire.
We’ll also focus on education and awareness of the most important sexual principles: consent, honesty, shared values, freedom from exploitation, protection from STIs and unwanted pregnancy, and, of course, mutual pleasure.
If you’re experiencing medical issues but aren’t sure which type of doctor to consult, I can help you find the appropriate referrals, as well.
Comfort and honesty are key
to discussing sex.
I guarantee both. I’ll create a safe space for you – where you can be completely open without fearing judgment.
You can learn how to communicate comfortably and effectively with your partner about every element of sex – needs, desires, boundaries, concerns – we’ll give voice to your feelings.
We can work through the issues you bring to the relationship, such as shame or guilt, anxiety, or trauma. We can also relieve the frustration relating to desire discrepancy, low or no sex, or issues surrounding libido.
When the issues are physical, such as sexual pain, erectile dysfunction, difficulties with ejaculation or orgasm, or disabilities, we’ll collaborate with medical professionals when necessary and meet you with patience and compassion to restore mutual satisfaction.
Even if you’re dealing with consent issues, out-of-control sexual behavior, threesomes, BDSM, or sexual harm and abuse, we’ll face them directly according to our guiding principles, with mutual caring and respect.
Suffering in silence? We need to talk.
As human beings, sex is a natural and enjoyable part of our lives.
You deserve to enjoy a healthy, pleasurable, satisfying sex life – without having to be ashamed of it!
You don’t have to settle for less than you truly desire any longer. Lyndsey Murray & Kaitlyn Nelson both see clients for sex therapy. Lyndsey Murray is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist helping individuals and couples with issues around sex and sexuality, and Kaitlyn Nelson is a Licensed Master Social Worker under the supervision of Jennifer Sterling, LCSW, and Lisa Elieson, PhD, LPC-S, CST.
Reach out to her today! (817) 562-6089 or click here to request your first appointment.